Conditional Love

Conditional love is palpable, tangile and REAL!

Unconditional love is not... whoever even invented that!
How often do you find unconditional love in the world.. today's
or folklore?!

I am not saying that it does not exist.. it does! But it is rare and
definitely not so common that you can find it in your own lives.
It is possible to love someone unconditionally as long as the other
entity is NOT real... is NOT tangible... or is a concept ! It is
practiced by 0.000001% of the population of the entire world at
any given time.Can you name one person in  your life who you
think loves someone unconditionally? Do tell.

Our relationship with our own self is not unconditional. Do we
forgive ourselves if we eat that piece of cake? Or if we do
something that goes against the grain of  our 'conditioned' minds'?
Can we let go of the feeling of guilt when we are disappointed to
know that the gift was not worth the wrapping?! We are trained
since we are born to accept and love everything as it is.. but the
truth is... we are humans! We have emotions and we cannot
betray them. And this post is about being true to our emotions..
to our nature..to who we are. I would like to believe that we
strive to be better everyday..but that we do not hate ourselves
if we are not !

Someone said 'Love is unconditional.... Relationships not'.
He or she was so right. Cos I don't think it is wrong.  If we want
to learn the art of unconditional love.. we ought to start with
ourselves.. by accepting our relationship with our own self...
by accepting that sometimes it just ain't happening mate!